Pirate Man

Had a really nice afternoon with Pirate Man, lets call him P from now on. We agreed to meet for coffee.. I forgot how much I love his eyes, so dreamy! Anyway.. Meet for coffee. He got there before I did & sent a text saying he was inside.. He stood up when I got to the table gave me a hug & a kiss that made me weak in the knees. He even remember how I love my bottom lip nibbled on. Right there in the middle of the coffeehouse! I like a man who shows affection without a care in the world. We held hands across the table & caught up with each other. We talked about he came to see me without even knowing what I looked like.. The only he had seen was my profile & one boob. We decided on a place for lunch & headed out.. One more kiss.. So so yummy!
We sat in a booth so we could be close.. We kissed & grabbed at each other under the table. I was & still am so turned on, there's something to be said about teasing & making the other squirm.. I had to get back to work so we left it at that.. A two hour teasing session & wouldn't have it any other way!

Come fuck me... Come to me

Did I tell you I love when they come visit me? Such a nice change of pace from having to drive out of town, since I do most of dating hooking-up out of town. Post Pirate Boy is coming here this weekend! I got us a nice room with a view.. I'm so happy I'll be getting to spend t with him.. He's got an amazing cock that feels so good in me. ie.. hits my gspot while I'm on top, which is my favorite position & fits perfectly in my mouth.. Yeah!
Oh & speaking of Pirate Boy, I'm traveling to where he lives for work.. I'll have an hour or so free & we're meeting for coffee.. He's such a smart-ass & keeps me on my toes, love it!

I'm trying my hardest to be upfront as I can with the two men I have found myself spending most of my time talking to. But how much is too much? or should I just zip my lips until we make a decision to become committed? & Pre Pirate Boy weighs heavily on my mind.. He said he misses me in a text.. Should I wait a couple more weeks & see if he comes around or am I just kidding myself again! Jesus so many questions so little time...

Stupid.. Stupid.. FUCK SHIT!

I want to send a text saying..

I miss you.. Miss you like crazy!!
I'm pissed I have to start dating again, you suck nutts!
Don't you realize how great we are for each other? Fuck the distance, man-up & make it work!!
Two more years & I will able to move closer.. That's a drop in the bucket compared to a lifetime together!
Asshole, I love still love you.

Testing.. Blogging from my phone

1st date sex? Good or bad idea? Different for men & women?

Well, technically this wasn't a first date.. I ran into a guy I had hooked up with years ago when I first left my husband.. We had fun catching up over a beer & made a date for Saturday night. Now we've already had sex but I wasn't sold on the idea of jumping right into bed with him again. I had to think about Post Pirate Man & if that budding relationship was worth seeing where it goes. So many decision! Picking out what panties to wear was the easy part! Black lace boyshorts, btw.

We agreed to have him pick me up & I asked if he remembers where I live, he said yes & thinks about me whenever he drives by & wanted to stop when he sees my car out front but never did. I guess maybe I should tell you how/why things ended with him. I had just left my husband & looking back I was no frame of mind of meeting anyone... But anyhow, I had just left my husband.. We met at a bar here in town, hit it off & exchanged phone numbers. I was open with him about still being married & had just left my husband. We saw each other a few times after that. Did I tell you gave him my cell phone number that was still attached to my husbands account :(  Long story short Mr Crazy called Mr New Guy. He was really understanding that Mr Crazy was "fighting for me" & I said it's probably best if we stop seeing each other until the divorce is over. So three years later, here we are...

Ok back to the theme of this post.. 1st date sex.. I personally don't have a problem with it. I'd rather see if we have good sexual chemistry & then I can decide if he's worth my time. That does not mean I sleep with everyone who I have drinks or dinner with, far from it. But if the date is going well & we're having a great time, sex is most diffidently on the table.

A few of my friends say "I need to make them wait for sex" Make him wait? That's like denying a fat kid his cake!  They also say men wont respect anyone who fucks on the first date. But my argument is would they respect me if I used sex as a bartering chip?? Hmmm...

He picks me up & we hugged, oh he smells so good.. Opens the car door, oh yeah! We get to the restaurant & he pulls out my chair, oh dear god my panties just got wet!

Did I tell you I packed an overnight bag??

Sheet shopping.. When is it too early? Listen up guys!!

OK boys.. Here's my public service announcement for the week While I love bachelors I hate for the most part their choice in sheets or bedding in general.. Or lack of bedding. Most men seem to think a bottom sheet & a comforter from the college days is good enough.. Wrong! 






I had a very fun weekend with someone new & while his apartment was nice & clean, his bedding was horrible!!  HOR RI BLE!!

THREAD COUNT COUNTS! 

The next morning I half jokingly said "if you want me to stay over again we need to do something about this bedding" So I had to go on to explain thread count & different cottons. He makes good money so there is no reason for the sandpaper he'd been sleeping on. He said he'd gladly take me sheet shopping & then asked if there was anything else his apt needed to feel more like home. Which took me by surprise. He needs bath rugs, curtains in the bedroom & a couple new pans because I love to cook But I left the conversation at just the sheets & cookware.

Boys.. Buy good sheets if you plan on having sleepovers!! 600+ thread count is good & Egyptian cotton is the best.

Making friends with his penis

Is it possible to make friends with his penis?

This kind of touches on my last post about sexual attraction. Are guys easy or are they really more like women & have to "feel" something?

In some ways I think it's easier for us.. I mean after all we can just lay there.. But men have to perform...

Hmmm?

Interesting...

Mentally he gets me going, but...

Post Pirate Man...

Checked my naughty email last week & came across someone who could spell, name off a few good beers & was witty. But no picture was attached :( Damn! So I politely asked for one & then I would be more then happy to send a picture in return. Well he sent me a picture that was taken from a distance, dang! He was clearly hiking in the picture & the view was breathtaking. In my reply I asked where it was taken & it's a trail I've been eyeballing for a while. He said if we hit it off he'd more then happy to take me up there.

We email back & forth the rest of the day and decide to exchange instance messenger id's. Now my naughty email & instance messenger are not connected to any real account of mine. I do a little snooping & his email is connected to his facebook. I like his sense of humor & the fact he takes pictures of his beer, good pluses in my book & I'm totally intrigued. But physically I'm not feeling "it" Damn Damn Damn!

We got into some pretty heavy topics last night & he knows more about me & the verbal abusive then Pre Pirate Man ever did in 10 months of knowing each other. The talk flows easy & it feels so nice to have meaningful adult conversation. But I'm worried about the physical connection after-all I'm still looking for a playmate. I have hope.. Cause we all know not every picture of us is flattering.